The younger one would follow his brother around, so it was a pain getting them both to sleep. The older boy was very mischievous, and didn’t like to go to bed when he was told. Shortly after, they moved.” Source Lock The Door It seemed to anger his mother when I told her how I got him to sleep quietly every night. After they finally showed up and got him, I could hear him crying in their apartment again. They acted as if nothing were wrong, and only paid my wife for one day. We’d been knocking on their door and calling every day. He just wanted to know that he wasn’t being abandoned. Saturday, Sunday, and Monday night, all I had to do was lay him down, put my hand on his back, and say ‘See you in the morning.’ I did not have to stay in the room, he’d fall asleep with no crying or fuss. After a few minutes, he fell fast asleep. We’d put his playpen next to our bed for him to sleep in, so I laid down on the bed and put my hand on his back and talked to him quietly. When I put him to bed the first night, he started crying as soon as the light was off. I’d heard him crying every day from their apartment he’d be left to cry himself to sleep at night. From the moment I got home Friday, I took care of him, played with him, fed him, changed him. By Monday, I wasn’t sure if I should call COPS or just start raising him. I was told they were out for the evening and would be coming back late, probably picking him up Saturday morning. “I came home from work one Friday to find my wife babysitting a neighbor’s child, probably 18 months. All in all, I think it warped my perception of women, sex and relationships very much and was a contributing factor to many years of having very little relation in my mind between sexual activity and emotional connection.” Source Maybe They Should Have Never Come Back I came to expect sexual satisfaction, I became the type to ‘whip it out’ at my first chance alone with any female and see what happened. The boost to my ego, and the way it affected my opinion of sex and women was not great. It took me close to twenty years to realize that what she did was COMPLETELY F–KED UP. She only watched us once or twice after that and there was no repeat of the event. She proceeded to give me what was my first, and by far my most memorable hand job. She started to stroke it over the fabric.
What she did next blew my 11 year old mind. I was too late, my sitter glanced over and saw the erection. I was embarrassed and unsure what to do, I started to squirm a little and try to formulate a plan. One Saturday night my sister was asleep and I was watching Are You Afraid of the Dark with our sitter. Like many 11 year old boys I was subject to frequent unwanted erections. “When I was 11 my sister and I were frequently watched by the same sitter. Turns out John’s parents used to use vodka and even whiskey to shut him up when he was loud (it’s later been discovered he had ADHD).” Source It Sadly Goes Both Ways Twice later that year teachers caught him with beer in his bag and even had to call the police when he gave an 8 year old a sip of Guinness. There’s some lemonade he can mix it with don’t worry.’ It turns out little John was an alcoholic. And if John asks, could you make a run to the shop to get him some tobacco and vodka. ‘Ok the younger ones are in bed, it’s just John and Sarah you have to look after. So I get there and the mother is just on her way out the door. So eventually I met her and she asked me a specific day. I said usually no but if she needed help I’d help out. John, only 11, one day asked me on behalf of his mum if I did babysitting. “We’d just moved to a new town in rural Ireland and I got part time work experience in a local school. Also, I can’t imagine what else he was denied or how else his treatment was altered just because he was adopted.” Source So Sad It was shocking and to this day I can’t fathom or understand those people’s reasoning. They actually told me ‘he’s not allowed to leave the living room, because he’s adopted.’ And that was their only reasoning. But then the parents told me about Y, who they adopted a few months prior. The parents told me that their biological son, X, was allowed to play Grand Theft Auto in his bedroom for as long as he wanted and that they had a stash of candy for just him and there were no restrictions. The children were two five year olds, one was adopted. “I once babysat just one night for these strange parents. Here are some of the most inappropriate things they have to deal with.
Babysitters have to deal with a lot: high energy kids, cleaning up after the kids and more.
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